How To Effectively Move On From A Failed Relationship

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Be it in advertisements, romance novels, social media, and magazines, dating topics are almost a staple daily topic everywhere. This also includes a very popular choice about moving on from a painful break-up. How do we start a new life after investing so much time, effort and emotions from a relationship we thought would last forever? A romantic relationship filled with so much love has turned into a cycle of misunderstandings, blame games, and toxic fights.

When it’s time to say Goodbye

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At some point, most of us have been in that kind of relationship where we are wondering whether to let go or still hold on. We are confused as to the direction the relationship is taking us, and we just don’t know whether to walk away or keep holding on, hoping that things will get better. Relationships normally go through high and low moments and in those moments, it’s hard to be sure of where you stand in the relationship.

There are times in your relationship when you feel like it’s no longer worth it. Trying to make it work just begins to feel like a waste of time, and you begin to wonder if it’s time to say goodbye.

You look at your partner, and you just don’t feel the love anymore. All the admiration you have for them is gone, and you just don’t want to be with them anymore. Or maybe it isn’t you. Maybe it’s them, with their refusal to put in more effort. You realize that they have been taking you for granted, you no longer feel as if they love you anymore, all the nice things they did for you in the past seems like it happened in your past life. The way they treat you now makes you feel worthless and unloved. You just begin to feel like it’s time to move on.

How to improve intimacy in your relationship

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Intimacy is very important in a relationship, but sometimes because of our crazy schedules in life and career, we become so busy that we begin to lose touch with our loved ones, especially with our partners.

When there is no intimacy in a relationship, the relationship suffers. The two people involved feel so far from each other, the connection that ought to be there isn’t, and there is just this feeling of disconnection between the both of them.

With intimacy, there is this sense of connection, the knowledge that someone knows you totally in every area, and still loves you regardless. Intimacy involves being vulnerable with your partner and just leaving yourself bare for them to see all that you are and hoping it doesn’t chase them away.

How to Maintain A Happy Long Distance Relationship

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When I learned that Kevin will be assigned in Singapore for 3 years because he needs to set up a new office for their company, I felt my heart stopped for 15 minutes until I digested the whole thing. OMG! I don’t know if we can make this happen – our relationship to be in this “situation”. These are the sentiments of individuals whose relationship started online (pros and cons here: https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/chat/pros-and-cons-of-an-anonymous-chat-room/), and those that started in person.

Five Mistakes You Should Not Make In Your Relationship

Every person dreams of having the perfect relationship – that fairy tale relationship where everything seems so magical, but the truth is that most people are not willing to put in the work that comes with having that fairy-tale-kind-of-love. Even in reality, there aren’t any relationships without mistakes, but there are some common mistakes couples can avoid to have a successful relationship. It is advisable to be aware of some of these challenges, so you catch them in time before they end up destroying your relationship.

Top 10 Dating Tips

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Starting a new relationship or entering the dating scene after a long time can be overwhelming which is why there are some set of rules for dating. Not everyone might know all the rules when it comes to having a successful relationship. Sometimes, the work involved in keeping a relationship intact is harder than it should be. There are days when you just want to call it quits and resign yourself to long nights of loneliness while on other days, you feel like you are on cloud 9 and never want to let go.

How Lack Of Communication Is Destroying Your Relationship

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There are so many minor and major infractions that can destroy a relationship. Maybe one partner is too busy for the other, or one has the inability to remember important dates or is lying and cheating. Or worse, a vicious habit that one is keeping from another and actually needs recovery from addiction.  Most of these issues could have been solved by listening to your partner and understanding their needs.

How to Deal with Different Life Plans

The natural progression of relationships stems across years. Throughout those years, you and your partner grow and change a lot individually and as a couple. Part of “playing the long game” involves making plans about your future together. But sometimes, when two different people are in a relationship, these differences could either complement or cause friction between partners.

Whether you’re planning for college, or a dream job, dream city–or even not planning at all–when you’re in a relationship, decisions are not one-sided anymore. They become these multi-facet matrix where one opinion or preference could be the total opposite of what your partner wants.

Why You Should Spice Up your Dating Life Every Now and Then

Every couple has their own way of spending the day together. Whatever it is, it might be a little too routinely if that’s the only thing you keep doing with your partner when you’re out on a date. It would help to spice things up a bit sometimes. If you do, it ignites the spark and excitement between you two. The thought of “Oh! We are actually doing this together. Crazy!”